Where were you White Knights when this person was explicitely called a retard on this very same forum, for pages and pages?
Also when he repeatedly asked for beta testers? (and was told that his game was shit)
Once again it seems like sarcasm is more offensive than insults to some people. In my humble opinion, that's weird.
The difference between the two threads is as between a face to face confrontation and talking about someone behind their back. This doesn't necessarily mean one is right and one is wrong though.
Erm... YES, yes it is. It is a good deed. Because I'm helping him, remember?
Ask yourself the following questions:
1. If Person A offers to help Person B when Person A is (presumably) older and more intelligent, with something Person B is openly struggling, does any form of bond of trust arise between them?
2. If Person A proceeds to reveal the difficulties which Person B has, and in which person A agreed to help with, publically, for the purposes of making fun of person B, is there a breach of any trust found at 1?
3. If there is a breach of trust as at 2 will person B feel assisted or betrayed by person A?