I HATE my dad

Jimi · Sun 20/04/2003 20:44:14

He is a complete and utter ~~TWAT~~ idiot. I LOVE playing my guitar, but even though he has a go at me when I don't go on it, even when I DO go on it, he just sits on a chair and stairs at me playing. I HATE HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!

Archangel (aka SoupDragon) · Sun 20/04/2003 20:46:22

Erm... well then go play it in another room. I'd be grateful if my dad even CARED that I've started playing guitar

Jimi · Sun 20/04/2003 20:55:01

I can't. This is the only room where my massive amp fits. It's not just that though. When he finds out that I like a particular girl, first he makes fun of me, THEN he suddenly goes all super serious about it. That's why I am super carful about who I tell.

This is [/u]NOT[/u] a silly thread, I really do HATE HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!

Helm · Sun 20/04/2003 21:22:20

The reasons you 'hate' your father for are ludicrous. This isn't the place to post such issues. This is a community relolving around amateur adventure game designers that have chosen to come together because of their common interests.

Such a common interest is not to play child psychologist, at any rate. I ask you to be a bit more mature and either deal with your problems privately, or talk about them with a person that cares for you and can help you.

I don't know about anyone else, but I do not come here to read threads about what you feel about your father.

Archangel (aka SoupDragon) · Sun 20/04/2003 23:10:57

Buy a practice amp and don't set your sights on particular girls.

Barcik · Sun 20/04/2003 23:11:56

Yeah, I hate him too.

Matt Brown · Sun 20/04/2003 23:30:46

*tear...tear* wahh wahh, my dad is the same way, and I play drums. Having your dad make fun of a girl you like is part of growing up. go find some pictures of him as a teen and go make fun of him. go bond some.

also, learn to play with a smaller amp, or aucustic. (however you spell it)

really, for a min. I thought you dad beat you or something.

LordHart · Sun 20/04/2003 23:41:57

Yeah, fathers are wierd. I just hope I don't turn into a wierdo when I have kids. Anyway, one of my friends fathers is just totally insane and wierd. He has done so many things that you would think just get him locked up. Here's a few examples:

1 - He believed that one time when he went to the local garbage dump, he fell and then miraculously started floating above the rotting heap... he actually believed that.

2 - He believed that he had a conversation with god on this same heap of filth.

3 - When my friend had a huge pimple on the side of his head, we gave it the nickname of a fruit and because it was purple and as everyone knows, purple is a fruit. His father began running around their house with a apple strapped to his head yelling "I have a piece of fruit on my head."

4 - During the chicken lover episode of South Park, when my friend was out of the room, he started talking about how he once had sex with a chicken to me and another friend. It was really gross, hearing this guy talk about this.

5 - And the biggest thing we always laugh about. He once believed that while he was walking down the main street of our town, a cloud started raining on him... no one else, just him. Yes, just like in a cartoon. But then, he says an alien spacecraft came down out of the sky, flew up to him and dried him off and then took off again.

It really is sad, because not a single thing I wrote here is a lie. He actually thinks all this happened. $:-\$

RabbitWithFangs · Mon 21/04/2003 00:24:41

Quote from: Jimi on Sun 20/04/2003 20:44:14
even when I DO go on it, he just sits on a chair and stairs at me playing. I HATE HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!

Have you told him it makes you uncomfortable? Better still, get him to find some bongos or something and join in.

Pumaman · Mon 21/04/2003 01:16:09

Quote from: Jimi on Sun 20/04/2003 20:44:14
He is a complete and utter ~~TWAT~~ idiot. I LOVE playing my guitar, but even though he has a go at me when I don't go on it, even when I DO go on it, he just sits on a chair and stairs at me playing. I HATE HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!

Geez, he only gives you free food and shelter, I can see why you hate him for sitting there :

rodekill · Mon 21/04/2003 01:23:31

I know a girl who's father used to beat her up.
One day he hit her so bad that she ran away from home, and hasn't spoken to him since.

That swirly feeling in your head is things coming into perspective.

Evil · Mon 21/04/2003 01:30:41

my girls father took all of her money out of the bank to buy his new wife a wedding ring. it was her money too, not money he put in. he also decied to buy somethings he wanted, so now she sleeps on the floor. she has no bed. and she wont be getting one soon either. now dont tell me you hate your dad.

Quickstrike · Mon 21/04/2003 01:46:29

Jimi, I'd say your dad is annoying. but he's not annoying enough to hate.

MillsJROSS · Mon 21/04/2003 06:49:03

Hate's a bit strong of a word. I don't think you honestly mean it, or you don't honestly know what hate really means.

My dad signed on as a member of the AGS community just to tell me to read my e-mail, in which he threatened to throw away all my legos and other child playthings if I didn't do a few things I've been putting off. Although, I'd be distraught if my legos were destroyed, I wouldn't hate him because of it. There was one time I had written about sixty pages of an ongoing fantasy novel, and when transfering computers he forgot to tranfer some of the word documents. I don't hate him for it. He's my dad, and, for the most part, he has to do some pretty horrible things for me to actually hate him.

-MillsJROSS

Las Naranjas · Mon 21/04/2003 07:43:11

somewhat Oedipan eh?

The guitar is the phallus I see.
Tell me about your mother.

earlwood · Mon 21/04/2003 08:12:58

Bah, If you're practicing then you don't need an amp, that keeps other people from hearing you struggling with jingle bells. He won't know you are practicing at all so he won't watch ya. Or you can turn it up so loud that he knows you are playing Jingle Bells...Or just tell him that he's messing your vibes and you need your space..

frobozz · Mon 21/04/2003 08:23:32

Meh, it sounds like teenage agnst to me. It passes with time. You'll get over it.

remixor · Mon 21/04/2003 08:38:56

My mother's father left her family with another woman, took the family's only car, and manipulated the school board at the school at which my mother's mother taught to get her fired, leaving her with no job, no car, and no money to support her two children. I could understand my mom having ill will towards her dad for that. Sitting on a chair and watching you play guitar? I don't know. I'd be rather grateful if my dad was interested in my musical ventures.

Quickstrike · Mon 21/04/2003 08:41:03

Quote from: frobozz on Mon 21/04/2003 08:23:32
Meh, it sounds like teenage agnst to me. It passes with time. You'll get over it.

Or...YOU'LL TURN INTO A 30 YEAR-OLD GOTH! :o :o :o
That's a fate worse than death!

Jimi · Mon 21/04/2003 13:33:25

*Quickstrike makes me scared

I went on a site, and it seems it's just puberty. Something like "I want independace, and the best way to get it is to be away from my parents." That was one thing it said. Anyway, I guess I don't have it all that bad, especcially when you see all these NSPCC adverts.

I HATE my dad

RabbitWithFangs