Im scared...

Bad Voo-doo man · Fri 01/04/2005 06:28:27

Ok, to start things off...Im in love with a friend of mine, her name's JaNae. She's had some really horrible relationships in the past, and its not fair..but anyway...tomorrow we're going on a double date but just as friends so its not really a date...and I just found out from a friend of mine who talked to her that she wants to kiss me tomorrow... :o I feel like i have butterflies in my stomach, and Im litterally scared crapless...what do i do?

DGMacphee · Fri 01/04/2005 06:31:39

Kiss her. Duh!

Jesus, when did these forums become LJ central?

Evil · Fri 01/04/2005 06:36:18

Ahhh, teen geek love. Been there, done that.

Well, you should probably use the bathroom before you go on your date so you don't shit your pants mid-kiss.

Guybrush_Deplugwood · Fri 01/04/2005 11:20:45

I fell in love with a friend of mine before, it didn't end good. But I know cases where it actually worked out great, so don't get discouraged. But, an advice from me is: Unless you want to screw it up, don't take advice from me.

And I know it sounds cheesy (and impossible), but just be yourself

SSH · Fri 01/04/2005 11:29:05

Clean your teeth and take chewing gum, especially if there's any possibility of eating garlicky food at any point on the date.

And make sure your friend wasn't pulling an April Fool, like: http://www.theregister.co.uk/2005/04/01/bush_twins_volunteer/ or http://www.theregister.co.uk/2005/04/01/steve_jobs_joins_ikea/

Phemar · Fri 01/04/2005 11:41:47

Lot's of breathmints I can tell you. The first time I kissed a chick, I just spent the whole evening cramming my mouth with breathmints... Hehe.

Ishmael · Fri 01/04/2005 11:48:34

I just knew it the first time a girl was about to kiss me... nobody needed to tell me, I just knew it. And it wasn't all that weird. Don't stress over it.

Blade · Fri 01/04/2005 12:08:49

When I first kissed a girl, I bit her lip and dropped her on the floor. I felt like I'm gonna fall underground. But as I helped her back on her legs he just laughed and didn't say a word. And our relationship lasted for three years.

Ishmael · Fri 01/04/2005 12:10:04

Quote from: Blade on Fri 01/04/2005 12:08:49
he just laughed and didn't say a word.

OMG!

sorry :

Babar · Fri 01/04/2005 12:19:00

Are you OMGing the fact that the relationship lasted 3 years, or the fact that the kissee magically turned from a female to a male?

Ishmael · Fri 01/04/2005 12:19:36

The latter one. I'll mend that quote...

InCreator · Fri 01/04/2005 16:38:02

Or --
"use booze on girl"
"use more booze on girl"
"use even more booze on girl"
"kiss girl"

this works just fine. She won't remember how good kisser you were, what did you eat or who was the guy anyway

HillBilly · Fri 01/04/2005 17:12:03

Whack her over the head with a shovel.

Well, or just kiss her, if you want to be more polite.

stuh505 · Fri 01/04/2005 17:26:11

try to ignore your friends comment about her wanting to kiss you. maybe it's true and maybe it isn't. either way, thinking about it can only make the situation worse. don't expect her to kiss you...if she does, it will be good but if you're expecting it then you'll be disappointed if she doesn't, and you never know if he wsa just making it up, or if she was just joking when she said it...

kissing is a pretty natural thing I think, even if you're a beginner. and biting isn't always a bad thing

CoffeeBob · Fri 01/04/2005 17:34:12

Quote from: Evil on Fri 01/04/2005 06:36:18
Ahhh, teen geek love. Been there, done that.

Well, you should probably use the bathroom before you go on your date so you don't shit your pants mid-kiss.

Hehehe... Just imagine how funny it would've been. Hahaha. Right when she does it, *phooooort!*. Hehehehehe.

Anyways, I think you should follow stuh505's advice. Don't expect too much, you might get dissapointed. Also, it might've been an April fool's joke what your friend said...

Gord10 · Fri 01/04/2005 19:26:01

If I were you, I would think it was an April Fool's joke, too. But "treat" her as friendly as you could, though.
Edit: OK, I fixed it. It's sad I'm too careless.

Phemar · Fri 01/04/2005 19:28:48

Quote from: CoolBlue-Gord10 on Fri 01/04/2005 19:26:01But threat her as friendly as you could, though.

What?

Gord10 · Fri 01/04/2005 21:19:11

Quote from: Zor on Fri 01/04/2005 19:28:48
Quote from: CoolBlue-Gord10 on Fri 01/04/2005 19:26:01But threat her as friendly as you could, though.

What?

Err, I meant "treat". Toothache makes me stunned.

shbaz · Fri 01/04/2005 22:43:15

Just don't get too carried away and hit home plate on the first date, everything will be fine.

Bad Voo-doo man · Fri 01/04/2005 22:53:31

Lol, thanks for the advice you guys...I didn't expect her to but..well..she paid me a visit today, and lets just say I LOVED it

Harvester · Sat 02/04/2005 00:16:02

Groovy! Keep the info up-to-date!

Phemar · Sat 02/04/2005 05:56:04

Did ... did you &@!# her???

Peter Thomas · Sat 02/04/2005 06:02:20

Quote from: Zor on Sat 02/04/2005 05:56:04
Did ... did you &@!# her???

I have no idea what &@!# is, at all! You've totally confused me, zor!

Could you please type the full word so I can understand?

TerranRich · Sat 02/04/2005 06:28:50

fuck

Peter Thomas · Sat 02/04/2005 06:32:02

ooooooh

Right. Well just as well that's not a personal question, because otherwise I'd almost think twice before I answered it on a world-wide public forum...

[Cameron] · Sat 02/04/2005 06:53:17

By kissing to you mean lips or adventuring to find the epiglottis?

Blackthorne · Sat 02/04/2005 09:06:30

Dude, I was nervous the first time I kissed a girl, but then she said to me, "Steven, I'm your cousin and I'll love you no matter what."

Go get her, tiger.

Bt

Oliver · Sat 02/04/2005 22:31:47

Define: "I loved it"

Paper Carnival · Sat 02/04/2005 22:36:50

Hmmm so what happened? Today is the big day, right?

CoffeeBob · Sat 02/04/2005 22:49:15

Quote from: Blackthorne on Sat 02/04/2005 09:06:30
Dude, I was nervous the first time I kissed a girl, but then she said to me, "Steven, I'm your cousin and I'll love you no matter what."

Go get her, tiger.

Bt

That made me lol.

Seriously, the first time you kissed a girl, you kissed your cousin?

Anyways, "I loved it" sounds to me like you did it with her.

Am I right or am I just a bit too dirty? Tell us more, godammit!

Ozzie · Sat 02/04/2005 22:54:28

Man, she just kissed him.
I think that's not so hard to read out, he loved the kiss, because that's all what it was about, right?
He never kissed a girl before so assume they didn't fuck directly.
It may be false but I don't think so.

Of course, I know how it is, even if you know that, you're pretty sure, there is a small chance it can be still different otherwise.

I think I start to talk about total different things....

Harvester · Sun 03/04/2005 00:52:02

Gentlemen, we're wandering off the topic!

Bad Voo-doo man · Sun 03/04/2005 07:35:33

Quote from: Ozzie on Sat 02/04/2005 22:54:28
Man, she just kissed him.
I think that's not so hard to read out, he loved the kiss, because that's all what it was about, right?
He never kissed a girl before so assume they didn't fuck directly.
It may be false but I don't think so.

Of course, I know how it is, even if you know that, you're pretty sure, there is a small chance it can be still different otherwise.

I think I start to talk about total different things....

Hehe, know we didn't do it, yes we kissed...we made out:)...and no, its not the first time I kissed a girl

Paper Carnival · Sun 03/04/2005 09:01:23

Yay!

Now don't screw up, because if you do I'll kill you

Oliver · Sun 03/04/2005 09:03:23

You scored!

CoffeeBob · Sun 03/04/2005 13:28:01

Quote from: Oliver on Sun 03/04/2005 09:03:23
You scored!

So now he's got 1348 points out of 20.000, right? *killed*
Imagine how life would've been, if you always had a score counter above your head, like in adventure games. That means I probably lost around 30 points when I smashed my GBA.

Ok, now I'm WAY off topic. Congrats or something Voo-doo.

Pumaman · Sun 03/04/2005 14:52:49

Sorry guys, this isn't a teen angst forum

Im scared...

Guybrush_Deplugwood