Is it Normal, or What?

Started by deadsuperhero, Tue 01/05/2007 03:50:23

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deadsuperhero

Well, with all these controversial threads, I figured I might as well give this a shot.
I've been very afraid about myself, so here goes.
I think I'm bisexual. Not like, attracted to men. I'm attracted to girls, but I'm heavily attracted to crossdressers, and tgirls (both pre and post op)
I'm 16. Is this normal, or is there something wrong with me?
I just don't know what to think sometimes...
What do you think?
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Fleshstalker

Well since everyone is coming out. I like furries.

Steel Drummer

Sexuality, according to the AGS Forums, Part III. ::)

I read once, on a masturbation site that it's normal to think of guys in girl's clothes while masturbating and to be turned on by wearing girl's clothes.

Quote from: Alliancebut I'm heavily attracted to crossdressers, and tgirls
If you're attracted to crossdressers, wouldn't that mean you're attracted to guys? Or are you talking about girls dressed as guys? What do you mean by tgirls? Transgender girls?

If crossdressers make your banana go hard, you might want to check this thread.  ;)
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Tuomas

#3
Well at 16 it might just be that you are exploring or learning, but yeah, bi-sexuality is very normal in my opinion.

I onnthe other hand have a calf fetish, not the cow type, but the leg type, you know what I mean.
EDIT: Oh and I forgot to mention Japanese school girls ;)

Steel Drummer

Yeah, it seems everyone has some fetishes. It's normal, Alliance.
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deadsuperhero

SD: By crossdresser, I mean someone who shaves their body, has a feminine body, wears makeup, and looks overall like a woman.
A tgirl is similar, except there's hormones and/or surgery.
In laymans terms, a woman with a penis.
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Steel Drummer

QuoteA tgirl is similar, except there's hormones and/or surgery.
In laymans terms, a woman with a penis.
In other words, a shemale, right? 
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deadsuperhero

Quote from: Steel Drummer on Tue 01/05/2007 04:06:09
QuoteA tgirl is similar, except there's hormones and/or surgery.
In laymans terms, a woman with a penis.
In other words, a shemale, right? 
Although that's correct, I use tgirl as the word. Shemale is considered offensive to them, as it's a word invented by the porn industry.
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InCreator

#8
16?
Too early to tell. Teen age is weird age for a man in which almost everything might turn you on.
I wouldn't suggest you to be too afraid, but the way you think and act will probably help moulding you into someone.

For most heterosexual men, anything gay is a taboo, and any gay thoughts are something that must be forgotten. Immediately! This also how I was raised and raised myself. Well, I'm hetero now. Don't know if it helped, but...

What's 'normal' in your case, is that you're going through various phases and thinking...

Start living somebody, and things start to clear in time.

P.S - for fetishes, EVERYONE has some. Even really-really weird or bad ones...

Fleshstalker

How do you feel about hemaphrodites (however you spell it)?

earlwood

#10
To give a testament for this certian case, I'm not too much older than you, but I find some Ladyboys (which I'm guessing to be the Thai equivilant to Tgrils, or maybe they are the same thing)  to be particularly attractive as well.  I too thought I was bi-curious when I first felt arroused instead of utterly disgusted by this, but that feeling has kind of faded away because, really, they are just girls with penises, and although I cannot tell you why you are attracted to it, I'm pretty sure that it doesn't stem from latent homosexuality.  In fact, a lot of straight dudes get their rocks off to shemales and yaoi, because they have a lot of qualities that they find appealing in the opposite sex.

You probably aren't bi-sexual, but if you saw a really cute girl and she had a penis, you might let her pull your pud.


deadsuperhero

Quote from: Fatal Fury on Tue 01/05/2007 04:53:55
How do you feel about hemaphrodites (however you spell it)?
Actually, that seems like a good compromise for a tgirl fetish...a girl and a man?
Intriguing...
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Shane 'ProgZmax' Stevens

Why ask the opinion of an internet forum, anyway?  On one side you're going to get people who think morals are flexible and do whatever feels good (ie, sensualists) and on the other side you're going to get people who have strict moral codes and think it's wrong.  This is more something you should discuss with your parents or people who actually know and care about you and not a group of over-opinionated assholes like us. 

That's the best advice you could hope for on this and many other subjects.

Seriously!

Evil

I'm all about cute Asian girls that have both sets of genitals. It's not homosexual of me. It only means they know how to treat a penis. :D

Alynn

While not so much transgender fetish myself, but something equivilant is Futanari, which is the hentai version of girls with penises.

There are different flavors (sort to speak) but the ones that get me are the normal girls that can grow a penis and have their way with other girls.

But as far as Tgirls go, when they look like women, and not men dressed as women I find them attractive. So it really all depends on how womanish they look.

Nikolas

Maybe it's a tad early?

Wait a couple of years.

Bi sexuality seems ok. Never tried and I'm not attractive to men or anything... But really, don't see the point!

There could be a distinct chance that you are bombarded with bi-sexual "projections" etc, so you have a small fixation on this? don't know, just asking really.

Well, just try it and see how it feels. Maybe finding a girlfriend will prove you once and for all that you don't like girls but like dressing like them. Or the opposite. who knows really...

ildu

I'd say fetishes rarely define character. If you're worried about being gay, you'd be better off exploring 'love' and 'crush' feelings rather than crude sexual fetishes. As said earlier, everyone has them and during teenage years, they're over-extended. Fetishes most likely stem from somewhere, but you shouldn't worry that they're gonna run your life or anything. I would say fetishes very rarely have any effect on your future self, unless of course you become completely enthralled and obsessed about something specific. But even then, you have to consider the degrees of what is considered a fetish. For some people even oral might be a fetish, and adversely for some others, you get to the really sick stuff :D.

WHAM

Quote from: Fatal Fury on Tue 01/05/2007 03:55:50
Well since everyone is coming out. I like furries.

Fatal Furry?  ;D

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Buckethead

Of course it's normal. I'm sure there are more guys like you who wonder the same.  :)

BOYD1981

i think there's a big difference between liking what you like and bi/homosexuality, i mean when you watch 'normal' porn you're still seeing a man naked, and it's the female stimulating the penis (usually) that you find erotic and not just the fact that the woman is naked and you can see her bits (which is why some people find lesbian porn very boring). so the penis plays a very big part in arousal, and shemale/gay porn is pretty much all about the wang and the breasts are there for decoration.
if you actively want to have a sexual experience with another male, be they transsexual or otherwise, then i'd say you probably are bi-curious. if you've done it, enjoyed it and still find women attractive then you're most likely bisexual. if you just like to fap over ladyboys then you have a fetish.
i think there's always an element of curiousity with most things though, and it doesn't always mean anything, people are just very quick to slap a label on something and class it as being unnatural, weird or down right disgusting.
i'd say you're just a normal teenage boy with a working penis and internet connection.

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