One of my best friends died yesterday

[Haddas]

I'm really sad, and I need a place to vent.

Yesterday, not even 24 hours ago one of my best friends died. He was driving and drove of the road and hit a tree, dying instantly. There were no brakemarks. I really don't think it was suicide, he didn't seem suicidal.

I saw to him the night before. We were at a party. The weekend hadn't really gone his way. We joked and I said "Next you're probably gonna hit a tree" and then we laughed.

And now he's dead.

[Minimi]

My deeply condoleances here.

These things are really sad tragedy's. I wish you strength in these times.

[ManicMatt]

My condolences also. You vent as much as you need to.

[Haddas]

Just found out. It WAS suicide.

[HillBilly]

That's pretty awful. I'm sorry.

[buloght]

I'm sorry to hear that, haddas, all of the best.

[Barbarian]

That's terrible. My condolences.
Prayers go out to all affected by this tragedy.

My Dad just died recently, so I can well understand your feelings of losing someone you care about.

Best wishes,
--- Don.

[Gord10]

I felt so sad while reading these, too. I think the worst part is that he didn't seem suicidal, but he committed... I can't imagine how I would feel when a very close friend of me suddenly committed suicide.
Anyway, best wishes....

[Tuomas]

I symphatize. It's sad how it happens, you never know when it is to affect you

[lo_res_man]

My condolences, I can not imagine what it would be like, haven never lost anyone close to me, I can not even begin to understand what you are going through, but I will try for your sake. My utmost sympathy.  I'll be praying for you.

[Nikolas]

My condolences as well...

I don't know what to say in such cases, so I'll just say that I know how it feels... I've lost loved ones (friends) not long ago and to be honest sometimes it still hurts.

Stay strong.

[Haddas]

Thanks for your support guys. I'm doing better now. I visited the site where it happened. It was peaceful. Lots of friends he never had visited.

[AlbinoPanther]

HuhÃ,  :'( a suicide you say well, if he didn't seemed like a suicidal guy that means that he kept his worrys in himself. The people who look suicidal don't kill them self in most cases.

I have all the best wishes to you Haddas and for your dear friend John I have one thing to say, man if you listen to this and I know that you are know that I understand you and I hope that you are better now I hope that I am right about life after death. Just continue to exist continue your journey be well and I hope that now you finaly found your peace and that all the things because you done this stayed in this "material" world.

I hope that you understand me HaddasÃ, 

And about you my friend take time-out put everything in closet and try to remember all the great things that you and John experianced together. The childhood friends are only true friends forever! So take a smile that I give youÃ,  take it and do a favor to your friend. Otherway he will laught at you one day when you meet him again. No seriusly live man smile and keep John in your heart and he will allways be there. Try to find out why did he done this and be there to his familly they need you.Ã, 

All the best wishesÃ,  Ã, 

[lo_res_man]

I have composed a haiku for you, in remberance

*AHEM*

Oh where have you gone?
To fields everlasting?
Rest in peace, tragic soul

Rest in Peace

[Darth Mandarb]

I saw to him the night before. We were at a party. The weekend hadn't really gone his way. We joked and I said "Next you're probably gonna hit a tree" and then we laughed.

I don't know if you're feeling guilt over making this statement ... but I thought I'd add that it isn't your fault.  I've dealt with suicide before (long and unrelated story) and believe me ... if it WAS suicide, you making that statement didn't make him do it.  It goes FAR deeper than that.

Other than that ... I just want to add my sympathy on your loss.  There's nothing any of us can "say" that will make the horrible range of emotions and feelings go away.  It's just one of those things you have to slog your way through, day by day.

Hang in there ...

[magintz]

Thankfully there has been no-one close to me to have ever had anything terrible happen to them. I remember when I was little my dad's appendix burst and he was rushed to hospital in an ambulance, that really upset me and I can't imagine what anything like losing my dad would be like, and I know from my experience of that how much we truly care about the people we love and keep close to us and for that I feel deeply sorry for you.

[PsychicHeart]

My condolences to you, his friends and ofcourse the family.

[Nacho]

My deepest condolences and sympathies to friends and relatives, specially you Mr. Haddas. I am not sure if we can really help, but maybe talking about it, to vent it, might work. You know some of our msn adresses, don't hesitate to pop up and chat if you feel you want to talk about it.

[Nine Toes]

I'm sorry, Alex.  My condolences.

[Meowster]

Hugs, and XXXXXXXXXXXXXX