I'm moving to Melbourne... I got the JOB.

[KANDYMAN-IAC]

Ok, its now offical. I got the job. I got a full time position with techworks in Officeworks, South Melbourne. I start around the 23rd.... not alot of time.

I'm moving to Melbourne, and I have to say I feel good... bad news though.

I am moving in with my ex-girlfriend... temporarily.

I need to finalise things with her in some way, she let me keep telling her how much I love her despite her continueing disinterest. Makes me feel kinda dumb. It's all my stupid fault, now I have to move on... she won't be expecting that.

Anyone wanna meet the KANDYMAN in Melbourne???

[DGMacphee]

I'm very happy you got the job. Congrats, dude!

[Bombadil]

Congratulations!

[KANDYMAN-IAC]

it should be about at least $1000 a fortnight (after tax),... with monthly commissions between $100 to $300... not bad for stupid, sodding, evil, ugly, smegging, sodding retail...

I'm not a fan of retail, I hate retail... this job is like being a skill-LESS computer tech... with customers that have more of a bad attitude. And this happens because they were all raised on the saying "the customer is always right"... unfortunately even when the customer happens to be a backwardly retarded asshole. 

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Also I tried Joining an online dating service thingy... but it doesn't seem to want to play ball, and keeps timing out. Here is what I wrote and it failed to send. (I was just advertising for friends to start with, then I was gonna update it when I'm in a position for female companionship)

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About me:
I'm very open, caring and compassionate about those that I care for. I'm trustworthy, friendly, and loyal, and can be a little protective. I also hope like hell that I have good sense of humour, but know that it can be a little sarcastic (and a little english according to a friend of mine, which could possibly be an insult.). I love talking to people, but I also like to listen.

I'm a large fan of visual storytelling, from theatre to films, comics, television and musicals. Which is why I have such a large range of hobbies, with a similar creative theme .

I'm currently  training myself as a performer, as both an actor and singer. I'd like very much to be a dancer also, but have no confidence for it and live in the land of hyper stress .  But I am currently putting together a gig of lots of beautiful Jazz standards. I've been told I sound like Harry Connick jnr, and lately that I look a little like him too ( that is a compliment right?? ).

I'm just about to move to Melbourne from Queensland.  And should be settled in St Kilda before the end of January, and I am currently looking to meet new people.

My ideal partner/s:
I like open, passionate, encouraging, supporting, friendly people. I definately like joking around, and having people I can talk to.

I'm looking for people with similar interests, who are interested in having a good time. Enjoy doing new things. And I am interested in the type of friends that may even be interested in helping push each other to do their best.

Hobbies:
Cartooning, Writing, Film Making, Acting, Singing and attempting to learn to dance.


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Also after planning to be a male escort I've concidered trying to be a male model... here is one of my actors shots to demonstrate. And links to 2 more images....

What are peoples opinions?
I've been told I look like a Ralph Lauren Model, though I think that just might mean I look "thin".


http://www.2dadventure.com/ags/john_9.jpg
http://www.2dadventure.com/ags/john_collage_copy.jpg

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What do people think? of any of it... but mainly the photos... and personals AD.

[Haddas]

One thing I noticed is that you look awfully pale in that picture. You should get more sun

[KANDYMAN-IAC]

OK... my head and heart are seperate things at the moment....

my head tells me I am being a fucking moron, tells me to walk away and sevre communication with my ex girlfriend....

but my mouth (which is taking direct orders from my heart btw) continues to sooth, placate and tell her I love her and find her attractive. Its all fucking TRUE, but I shouldn't be doing it... I'm leading her along sorta after I've been dumped (if that is at all possible???)... my brain says get the fuck out and shut up.

But do I listen... NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!

[Blade]

IMO the first reason you should pull a bucket of cold water on your head and finish the thing with your ex is that she allows you to be in her companion. She ruins you and she lets that happen. I don't know her and I don't want to sound offensive, but it looks to me like she acts mean on you. She knows how much it takes for you to see her indifference (is that the right word for her stance?). She doesn't love you and I think she does not care about you. If she cared, she would have told you that you both shouldn't spend any time together. That would be brutal, but sincere and seemingly right to do.

As to the picture, yeah, you look like a model, with a skill to pose. And you sure have a lot of creative interests.

[InCreator]

Blade's right. This is weird stuff with your ex...
You're able to write your whole story here, with every word yelling "I'm doing wrong!", make hundreds of people read and understand the message too, but are not able to make yourself believe this... and stop it.

I'd suggest you to skip the search for non-painful ways to totally break up with the woman. Like dating someone else, remaining "friends", still being/travelling together, etc. Feeding the false hopes.

Just tell her goodbye at a moment. Then separate, and fucking suffer, cry, whatever... until it's over. Until you realize that it's over. Until hopes die.

Then It's time to go on.

[Pelican]

I don't like to be the voice of gloom here, but there is no way you can finish things with this girl, that aren't going to hurt. But the longer you extend it, the more its going to hurt you. I can promise that it will hurt less over time. I know its probably what everyone tells you, but it really is true. And though it may not seem like it now, you will learn something from the experience, you will come out of it stronger. Good luck.