Two woman kissing, why the turn on? (warning, this thread might offend)

[The Inquisitive Stranger]

Maybe you ought to give a same-sex relationship a try, then.

But I relate to members of the same sex all the time in my day-to-day life!

[Tuomas]

This subject got pretty boring very quickly. as does a porn movie btw.

It's interesting to me, how -I bet- a lot of people talking about lesbians and threesomes in this thread haven't even had sex yet, maybe even haven't kissed a girl (I'd say /boy but both girls partaking in this thread have had boyfriends). Quite a fantastical concept you're pondering on, guys. It reminds me of broken-sexualities of 30 year old virgins who can no longer be aroused by anything than X-TREME pore-level closeups of triple penetrations.

Now this is an extremely good point. Seeing people are such, and yet argue on a, how did Ildu put it, oh yeah, seld-evident subject. I bet we could all go deep into our minds and think what is arousing, what turns us on and what not. Everyone's different. otherwise we wouldn't have sites like www.fatfantasy.com or we wouldn't have the word necrophilia in our vocabulary...

[Buckethead]

This is just a matter of opinion, it's obvious that not every man likes 2 girls kissing more then guy<>girl kissing. Now either those guys are all gay or this "guys like 2 girls kissing" just not totally true.

But what ever. In these times everything is normal IMO: guys kissingm, girls kissing, old and young... or what ever.

About why man could like that is well... erm... why does people like chocolate. Probably because they find it tasty. Isn't it just the same with this? guys like girls kissing togheter because it turns them on. It's as simple as that.



And why does the sky turn red sometime btw? I never get that 

[Helm]

Maybe you ought to give a same-sex relationship a try, then.

But I relate to members of the same sex all the time in my day-to-day life!

Wow, you must really fuck around.

[The Inquisitive Stranger]

Oh, you know it, Helm!

[Helm]

Yeah, we're old friends, right?

[LimpingFish]

But one thing about the discussion, its been mentioned 1 guy and 2 girls..
but not about 1 girl and 2 boys?
Any discussion about that?

See now, that's a whole other head of cabbage.

Although, Hetero-Joe doesn't mind watching two guys on one girl, as a passive participant he can focus entirely on the object of his fantasy (The Girl), actively particapating in a similar situation raises a lot of uneasy questions for him...

"Is his penis bigger?"
"Is she enjoying him more?"
"Why isn't she paying as much attention to me?"
"What do I do when he makes eye contact?"

...I would imagine. 

[Helm]

"What do I do when his balls bump against my balls"

[Erenan]

I think the thing to do then would be to slip into a psychosomatic coma for ten years and have surreal adventures inside your head.

[lo_res_man]

As the starter of a fairly successful thread, I would like to thank you all for been mature about this subject and not use it as an excuse to act like an idiot.

[Erenan]

YORU DUMB LOL OMGZ0RZ!!!!!1111111 poop

[Helm]

I fuck goats.

[lo_res_man]

YORU DUMB LOL OMGZ0RZ!!!!!1111111 poop

I fuck goats.

So much for maturity. :

[m0ds]

Genitals are cool but we musn't think like a species!

[DGMacphee]

On the topic of guys-on-guys and girls-on-girls, I just want to say I think as long as consenting adults are having good times with their sexual adventures, then that's a good thing regardless of your sexual preference. Doesn't matter if you're male or female, doesn't matter if you're straight, gay or lesbian. The world needs more people loving each other.

Man, that sounds like a bunch of liberal hippy crap but screw it. You know I'm right.

[2ma2]

You liberal hippie!

I find a man and woman kissing not the slightest bit arousing, even how attractive they might be. The movie-kiss has ruined everything tickling about it. And when seeing them IRL, it is just embarresing. Stop kissing and be social you twats!

I have kissed several guys just for the hell of it. No tounge though. Dunno if I missed out on anything. But I bet several girls have done the same thing, where the actual kissing is degraded to an act of pure provocation or mental borderbreaking, rather then an act of physical enjoyment and arousement. So the arousing feeling is reserved strictly to the onlookers. Would that impeed on the level of arousement - the engagement of the people actually acting it out?

[Helm]

I'd have to say yes. I don't find movie kisses arousing most of the time, whereas when you see something that looks like pretty real passion and all that, it's much more potent.

[MrColossal]

Movie kisses on a whole are usually pretty stale, in my opinion.

They're just prolonged lip to lip kisses with a lot of heavy breathing. Then the female character goes "Wow! What a kiss!" and I'm left saying "I've kissed my cat with more passion than that!" and then I'm arrested for bestiality.

[Babar]

YORU DUMB LOL OMGZ0RZ!!!!!1111111 poop

I fuck goats.

So much for maturity. :

Hahahahah...maturity! Lo_res, why did you ask this question? Did you see 2 hot lesbians kissing and wonder why you were aroused? Were you surfing porn and suddenly had an introspective moment of "Why does this make me horny"? Or were you thinking "Hey, I want to start a thread and I'll be all cool and mature and ask a question where lots of people will talk. Then I'll be 'a successful thread starter'!". Sorry for being all rude and blunt, but personally (and I mean personally) I see this just as an excuse to attempt to gain a few points on Farl's Famous Respectometer (FFR). Forgive me if I am wrong.

Nonwithstanding, as to the actual question, I don't really find 2 hot lesbians kissing to be arousing. Like 2ma2, I generally get too uncomfortable and embarassed, and look away before it can affect me in any way. If you are referring to porn...well....I don't know about others, but in a removed, voyeuristic mode, I find the penis and vagina to be ugly and non-arousing, and I generally do not have the inclination to think "I want to join them" or "I want to be part of that". Hence I'd prefer that to stuff involving men as well. And perhaps I'm not very imaginative or something, but 2 men kissing, or even some visuals with obscure sexual connotations, I don't find arousing at all. I don't think I have those sort of mind-to-penis connections at all. I mean, I've got 5 bitches and 1 male dog at home, and they go at each other in all different ways, and I don't even find the idea of what I see them doing arousing.

[DGMacphee]

It's interesting people are mentioning movie kisses. I don't find a lot of them too appealing either. The kiss between Robert Forester and Pam Grier at the end of Jackie Brown comes close. I think it's because it's a drawn out kiss with the sexual tension piling up. I dig that.

So what do you all consider the most sexy scene from a film?

The most recent that comes to mind is Mr and Mrs Smith -- The scene where they're beating the crap out of each other. I don't know why, but it was strangely erotic seeing both of them kick each other in the guts. It was pretty violent but I think it was because it was such a wild scene that I found it erotic.  I kinda see that as a good metaphor for an intense sexual relationship, where both people involved are constantly challenging the other. Kinda like having a good wrestle under the sack.

Other choices: Secretary was pretty sexy, same with the Jamie Lee Curtis dance in True Lies,

Also, here's Channel4.com's top 100 sexiest scenes...

http://www.channel4.com/film/newsfeatures/microsites/S/sexy/index.html

Also, an article on Top 20 movie kisses...

http://www.progressiveboink.com/archive/moviekisses.htm