QuoteFirst, I'm not at all convinced that the debate of "sexist language" is actually worth the time some people put into it, because it distracts people from the actual underlying issues: it's treating symptoms rather than causes.
I agree that political correctness is treating symptoms rather than causes, and that trying to change language because it is supposedly sexist is completely vain and useless. But that is not what I am trying to do. The conversation led to the fact that masculine takes all as a gender, and I was mentionning that this is, historically speaking, not mild. While it is not worth changing the English (or French, or Spanish, etc.) language, I truly believe it is important to be aware of that.
My point was not with really with the language though ... although "men" is oftentimes used to mean mankind, my point was that in the founding documents, while the founding fathers might have meant "mankind" (I was not there so I cannot tell), the documents were subsequently used and interpreted as though they had said "men" as in "males". This is not merely linguistics; this is what has shaped America for the next few centuries.
And talking about history, why are famous artists always male? Can you name from memory any Classical era composer that is a woman? Chopin? Schumann? Schubert? Beethoven? Liszt? While these are more or less commonly known names, none of them are female. Is that to say that women are biologically capable of composing music?
I apologize for my, perhaps, vehement tone. As stated before, indifference, and complacency are two of the main adversaries in this debate.
Women are not victimized because everybody is actively seeking to undercut them, but because society has evolved on sexist roots, that is has never really shed---because they are not always acknowledged. (And again, women are not the only group on the receiving end of intolerance ...)
Anyway, I *am* turning in circles, so I guess I'll quit this topic and let others express themselves. Sorry for having more or less monopolized the convo, and thanks for answering me.