Mr Hyde: Beautiful description of marriage there, at least what it should be ^_^ If you're not married already, go around telling the women that and you'll have no trouble
I'd go a little further and say that I don't believe marriage has to mean anything at all. People getting married for a green card or something doesn't bother me at all, as long as they're happy with what they're doing. It only bothers me when the two people involved are in it for different things or something, or have been deceived or... something.
But that's in extreme cases. Ideally, I think marriage should just be a way for people to make formal a relationship based on love, friendship and a desire to share your lives together. That, and it makes filling in forms easier, makes it easier to refer to your partner (I personally hate saying "That's my boyfriend" and feeling like a 14 year old) and you get to have an awesome party in the form of a wedding (complete with open bar, of course)
I'd go a little further and say that I don't believe marriage has to mean anything at all. People getting married for a green card or something doesn't bother me at all, as long as they're happy with what they're doing. It only bothers me when the two people involved are in it for different things or something, or have been deceived or... something.
But that's in extreme cases. Ideally, I think marriage should just be a way for people to make formal a relationship based on love, friendship and a desire to share your lives together. That, and it makes filling in forms easier, makes it easier to refer to your partner (I personally hate saying "That's my boyfriend" and feeling like a 14 year old) and you get to have an awesome party in the form of a wedding (complete with open bar, of course)