I was in a very similar (still am, actually) situation. A lot of the people I know are party animals. The only thing that matters to them is getting drunk, getting high, and sleeping with as many people as possible. They brag about how drunk they got, or how high they got and how the hallucinated.
I'd watch my peers running around late into the night, whooping it up and being wild, and I felt like I should be doing this too. It seemed there was something wrong with me that I wasn't doing this stuff, and that I only had a limited amount of teenage years to enjoy myself, and so on. Being a teenager is hard, and I've hardly enjoyed any of it. There's a lot of pressure on you, telling you who you are, who you should be, and who you will be.
Eventually I learned not to worry about what other people think of me. Drinking yourself stupid isn't something to brag about. They're being very shallow when they brag about it, and you're better off if you're deeper than that.
I would much rather spend an evening talking late into the night about intellectually stimulating topics than to run around getting high/drunk, making trouble and partying.
You should be proud to not be like that, to be different. You sound more mature than many your age, and that's a good thing.
I'd watch my peers running around late into the night, whooping it up and being wild, and I felt like I should be doing this too. It seemed there was something wrong with me that I wasn't doing this stuff, and that I only had a limited amount of teenage years to enjoy myself, and so on. Being a teenager is hard, and I've hardly enjoyed any of it. There's a lot of pressure on you, telling you who you are, who you should be, and who you will be.
Eventually I learned not to worry about what other people think of me. Drinking yourself stupid isn't something to brag about. They're being very shallow when they brag about it, and you're better off if you're deeper than that.
I would much rather spend an evening talking late into the night about intellectually stimulating topics than to run around getting high/drunk, making trouble and partying.
You should be proud to not be like that, to be different. You sound more mature than many your age, and that's a good thing.