Quote from: ProgZmax on Sat 13/06/2009 02:39:35
You've essentially written yourself into a Catch-22 situation where you personally are not willing to commit to any reasonable course of action, so my question is this: what sort of advice could you hope for when you are completely unwilling to:
A) Give her up and move on.
B) Tell her how things are and risk everything.
or
C) Continue on with the way things are.
You've really hedged yourself into a no-win scenario where there isn't a fucking ounce of useful advice anyone can give you because you're just being too damn stubborn to begin with. You know me so you know I don't dance about with what I have to say, and I know you so I know you'll take what I'm saying for what it is:
Come up with some more realistic options.
He has a point.
A) Be honest with yourself is it really going to happen? If not I'd say walk away.
B) If your dead certain that you both love each other as much as you claim, then take option B. Sure the husband might get hurt but unfortunately you're going to have to choose your feelings or your morals. Its gone so far now, you can't pick both.
C) This is not a viable option, do you really want to live like this the rest of your life.
D) I suggest you talk about this to her next time you see her on her own. The worst thats going to happen is that you know where you stand and you know that option A is the path to take. Sure it'll hurt, but believe me it gets easier. It takes balls to do this so if you don't have any grow some.
Unfortunately I don't have a time machine. Do you know how much those Deloreans cost?
Good Luck buddy,
Stee