As yet another teacher, I think you handled it exactly right. It's a tricky situation, because on one hand, as you said, the testimony of a 12 year old can be untruthful and allegations of this nature can ruin a life even if they're proven false. But on the other hand, doing nothing could have even worse results. A teacher is an important role to the development of a young person, and being taken advantage of by someone in that position is permanently and seriously damaging. Someone very close to me was molested in a similar fashion when they were twelve, and more than thirty years later, the memories, long repressed throughout a perfectly normal and successful life, came flooding back and hospitalized this seemingly strong and stable person. Really awful.
I have to say, the real hero of this situation was the girl who came to you. I don't think there are many kids out there that age with the strength to do what she did for her friends. Who knows how brave or how stupid this teacher would have gotten if it had gone on much longer? It really says a lot about you, too, that she trusted you enough to come to you with such sensitive information. Well done, Andail.
Edit: As a side note, this kind of person is really affecting the way teachers think and act nowadays. I somewhere read a comment recently by a teacher in Italy who said that if he were walking down the beach and saw a school-age girl alone and crying, he would turn and walk the other way for fear of losing his teachers license or worse. And I can completely understand what he's talking about. It's a bad situation.
I have to say, the real hero of this situation was the girl who came to you. I don't think there are many kids out there that age with the strength to do what she did for her friends. Who knows how brave or how stupid this teacher would have gotten if it had gone on much longer? It really says a lot about you, too, that she trusted you enough to come to you with such sensitive information. Well done, Andail.
Edit: As a side note, this kind of person is really affecting the way teachers think and act nowadays. I somewhere read a comment recently by a teacher in Italy who said that if he were walking down the beach and saw a school-age girl alone and crying, he would turn and walk the other way for fear of losing his teachers license or worse. And I can completely understand what he's talking about. It's a bad situation.