I love spicy food as well. BDSM however doesn't appear like it would appeal. One could use the argument "you don't know till you try it". However, trying a new food is one thing, it is quite another to get all tied up and gimped, to find out then I don't like it. Rather too much of an investment of time and effort and I wouldn't want to hurt the other persons feelings by quitting while they are enjoying themselves. As I hope I have made clear however, if it is your thing, it is your thing. I just, at present, do not believe if it my thing. I don't think it would fair for me to say that anyone twho doesn't share my interest in futanari is repressed. I only ask that others give me the same respect considering BDSM.