Two woman kissing, why the turn on? (warning, this thread might offend)

Huw Dawson · Tue 12/09/2006 21:59:25

It's probably got something to do with Ninja's, Pirates, Danny's Mom and the number 42.

On a more serious note, it's probably simply due to the fact the majority of the human race are perverts, or that it's a kinky thing. Same principle as the reason nearly all warrior women in fantasy wear bikinis.

Not that I'm complaining or anything. >_>
- Huw

Tuomas · Tue 12/09/2006 22:10:06

I might a bit...

Erenan · Tue 12/09/2006 22:22:31

Quote from: Nikolas on Tue 12/09/2006 20:12:09
...a hidden will (in everybody, not talking about me), to be the other sex.

This rings true. It's not so much an "I identify more with the other sex than my own, and therefore I want a sex change" sort of thing. It has to do with the fascination with otherness. The opposite sex is inherently less familiar to you than your own, and as a result, sometimes the draw to be intimate with the opposite sex can manifest itself as a desire to experience being the other sex. After all, what situation could be more intimate than actually being something? Very little.

LimpingFish · Tue 12/09/2006 22:29:31

Heterosexual pornography, made and marketed for the average Joe Sixpack, gives us the fantasy of "Lesbianism" as an act rather than a lifestyle. Sure, these girls will engage in various sexual acts together but they'll also invite any wandering Joe who happens past to join them.

So it's female bi-sexuality that's the ultimate male fantasy. She'll make it with her girlfriend, and when they're finished, Joe can step in and have them both.

EDIT: I wish I was Joe.

The Inquisitive Stranger · Tue 12/09/2006 22:34:31

Quote from: Sir B on Tue 12/09/2006 20:13:26
Yes, but hot lesbians are. It should be noted that lesbians are only hot when not looking like those man-looking women.Ã,Â :o

I think butch women are cute.

lo_res_man · Tue 12/09/2006 22:39:28

Quote from: LimpingFish on Tue 12/09/2006 22:29:31
So it's female bi-sexuality that's the ultimate male fantasy. She'll make it with her girlfriend, and when they're finished, Joe can step in and have them both.
EDIT: I wish I was Joe.

My primate side says that that is true, but it doesn't explain the turn on with two woman.

Becky · Tue 12/09/2006 22:41:31

QuoteMy primate side says that that is true, but it doesn't explain the turn on with two woman.

QuoteIn all honestly - it's erotic imagery. With women. And no ugly penises to look at.

Pumaman · Tue 12/09/2006 22:44:22

If the penis is so ugly, why hasn't it evolved to be as attractive as breasts?

LimpingFish · Tue 12/09/2006 22:44:53

Breasts are ugly too. Well, some are...

Gord10 · Tue 12/09/2006 22:53:02

I find the two women kissing hot as long as it is possible to join as the 3rd one.

And as said before, there are no ugly male thingies to watch (not only penis, also a masculine body etc.)

SinSin · Tue 12/09/2006 22:56:57

Quote from: Pumaman on Tue 12/09/2006 22:44:22
If the penis is so ugly, why hasn't it evolved to be as attractive as breasts?

Coz gravity wont let it lol

The Inquisitive Stranger · Tue 12/09/2006 22:59:42

Quote from: Pumaman on Tue 12/09/2006 22:44:22
If the penis is so ugly, why hasn't it evolved to be as attractive as breasts?

Because evolution is sexist.

buloght · Tue 12/09/2006 23:03:12

Quote from: The Inquisitive Stranger on Tue 12/09/2006 22:34:31
Quote from: Sir B on Tue 12/09/2006 20:13:26
Yes, but hot lesbians are. It should be noted that lesbians are only hot when not looking like those man-looking women. :o

I think butch women are cute.

When I say man-looking women I mean lesbian women delibarately dressing themselves as men, cutting their hair short and ... yeah, slightly butch too. Not talking about butch women dressing as women

Raggit · Tue 12/09/2006 23:20:51

I don't concur that male anatomy = ugly, and female anatomy = beauty.

I tend to think that BOTH male and female bodies are amazing and beautiful in their own ways, and obviously, work together in even more amazing ways.

As far as the multiple girls kissing thing goes, I, being male, don't find that to be any more erotic than any other particular act or situation.

So don't put all guys in the unintelligent-kinky-perverted-sex-seeking-animal category.

Oneway · Tue 12/09/2006 23:27:10

Extending on what Ytuzers boyfriend said: If you are aroused by one (naked) person of your preferred sex, then two (naked) persons of your preferred sex would be twice as arousing. It makes perfect sense.

The real freaks here are the women that don't have the same feeling when looking at two (naked) specimens of their preferred sex.
Let's face it, it's the women who are illogical here. But i don't suppose that's any ground-shaking news

Erenan · Tue 12/09/2006 23:31:11

I disagree. Sexuality and arousal have a lot more to them than simple visuals. Situation and circumstance are very important.

Meowster · Wed 13/09/2006 01:11:05

I think guys also like the idea of two women wanting them at the same time. Naturally, it makes them feel incredibly sexy.

Think about it. If you had a MFF threesome, it'd be sexy sex because it's one of those things that you are told is sexy. It's a common fantasy. But also, wouldn't you enjoy being cuddled and pampered by two naked women who want to please you? Imagine lying in bed with them afterwards, spooning one while the other has her boobies on your back and is kissing the back of your neck.

Having them cuddle and pamper and kiss you, all warm and naked and bouncy... Â¬Â¬ and they both want you, and want to please YOU...

I don't know I'm just throwing ideas out there.

Gord10 · Wed 13/09/2006 01:39:40

This thread gets more and more interesting

Anyway, I agree with Erenan. "Sexuality and arousal have a lot more to them than simple visuals. Situation and circumstance are very important."

Edit: I have just realised this was my 666th post. Yay!

Kinoko · Wed 13/09/2006 03:55:58

Ah, this is funny. I just came away from reading a VERY similar thread on another forum but they weren't anywhere near as polite as people here are being about it.

Attractive women getting it on is hot, as are attractive men getting it on. All types of attractive people doing sexual things with each other is hot, and if it's not your specific thing, that's fine... but generally speaking, attractive people + sex in any combination = hot.

Fetishes mostly come from people having individual triggers that have developed at some point that remind them of sex. I mean, sex is all people need, generally, to turn them on. Therefore, some reminder of sex, something that makes them think of sex is usually what becomes their own personal turn on. Perhaps just looking at the calendar and seeing it's a Thursday is enough for you if you know that's the day your wife takes the chastity belt off.

Therefore, obviously, two people fucking or something is inherently hot, regardless of gender. Some people might be turned on by the fact that a homosexual "encounter" is so shocking to them, or some people might be turned off (or forcefully so) if they believe it's morally wrong or some crazy shit like that, but generally speaking, I shall state it again...

Attractive people + sex = hot

monkey0506 · Wed 13/09/2006 04:15:16

Which brings up the disturbing question:

What the hell defines an attractive person?

In the end...it really just all comes down to personal preference. Different people find different traits appealing. Namely, back on the subject of breasts, there are a lot of men that want women with ridiculously large breasts. Personally, I find it disgusting. Honestly I'd rather look at a flat-chested chick that I at least know is REAL than look at some plastic Barbie doll. But like I said...it's all personal preference.