Am I A lucky Bastard?

MarVelo · Fri 10/03/2006 02:58:46

This is me.

And I am goin out with her.

Do you think that I am really lucky? or that we look right for eachother. I just mean that she is 18 and I am 15 so I was woundering if this is amazing. Did I mention I love her?

Redwall · Fri 10/03/2006 03:06:38

Didn't we just go over this stuff?

Las Naranjas · Fri 10/03/2006 03:15:39

Listen to Dashboard, it'll just end badly!

In need of more prophets? http://www.heartbreakclub.org/

Scummbuddy · Fri 10/03/2006 03:29:34

How Deliciously Emo!
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You may not want to mention that you "love" her. Why?

a) You really don't know what love is at 15. Trust me. You may think you do. You don't. I wish someone had told me the same. Oh boy, do I...
b) You'll scare her off.

Good Luck. I don't know any past 15 year old friends of mine that are still together with their girlfriend from the time, but hey, make your own path through life and see how it works.

Pesty · Fri 10/03/2006 04:07:43

Your girlfriend seems to have spilled something on her shirt.

Also, another fine example of Myspacing a picture.

Unilin · Fri 10/03/2006 04:14:56

ildu · Fri 10/03/2006 05:18:12

I knew it. I knew exactly what this thread was about before I even opened it. Has the General Discussion forum become one big personals ad?

Anyways, I don't know if you're lucky or not, but it really makes you wonder what an adult woman (at least by European standards) is doing with an adolescent. Viceversa, it's not that uncommon, as guys progress slower than girls during the teens, and usually guys are more prone than women to being sleazebags. But thousands of drama shows have shown us where this leads. But in the reverse case, I'm not sure how to react. Either she really likes you, or she has an alternative agenda, whether she, herself, knows it or not. So I guess I'd advise you to be wary.

Undoubtedly, you're gonna get your heart broken at some point in your life, and it does change perspective. So why not get it over with? Just try not to invest too much in it. Also, you could learn a lot from the relationship, whether it holds up or not. And always remember that in the States, conjugation in this kind of situation is called statiotary rape

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Kinoko · Fri 10/03/2006 05:49:17

Given that it's a MySpaced up picture, it's hard to tell, but she does appear to be somewhat hot. Good for you.

I don't know a thing about you so don't take this the wrong way, but I have to agree that this probably will end up hurting you, and I also wonder about her motives.

Nothing about you, but I just know that when I was 18, going out with a 15 year old boy was just an INSANE thing to do. Girls that age might go down one year if the guy is really mature looking, but to go down so many years... a guy might do it to a girl, but it really in strange to see it the other way around.

So yes, I think you are a lucky bastard for the moment. I recommend you do some dirty things with her quickly (experience points count!) and then break up with her. Not meanly, just... tell her you've decided the age gap is too difficult to handle and you want to save further heartbreak for the both of you later.

(This is coming from someone who met her 8 years senior fiance at the age of 14. As hypocritical as it sounds, I stand by my advice.)

xenogia · Fri 10/03/2006 05:52:38

Ahh the emo fad, so many of them here in Australia. Especially when I play gigs at so-called metal clubs and see 3000 of them, with the same fringe, clothing and make-up. Its even hard to tell apart the guys from the gals. No offence to your other half, I just took note of the fashion trend.

Evil · Fri 10/03/2006 06:21:19

I tapped some 18 year olds when I was 15. And some hot ones at that. But it wasn't love. Far from it.

Scummbuddy · Fri 10/03/2006 06:28:09

I met and flirted heavily with my someday fiance when I was 15 and she was 15... I never thought of it that way. It was high school track. We didn't date until college, and to be honest, as wonderful as it is now, I'm a little glad we didn't start earlier. I don't want to think about "what if" we dated back then, and I acted like I used to, and we broke up and I missed out on what perfect is now.

I have no idea what my point is... except that I may have completely run over my previous posts' point. Hmm. 8) We're 22 and 21 now and maybe, perhaps someday, if scubachic is reading this... maybe I'll propose someday.. Ã,Â

The Inquisitive Stranger · Fri 10/03/2006 06:31:09

Quote from: Kinoko on Fri 10/03/2006 05:49:17
Girls that age might go down one year if the guy is really mature looking...

I did, and even then, it didn't work out. Moral of the story: there's no such thing as being "wise beyond one's years".

Kinoko · Fri 10/03/2006 06:49:56

When it comes to teens, I think you're right. There are some that are less mature than they should be, and some that look and act more mature than they should be, but it comes down to life experience in the end and there's no way you can hurry that up.

Helm · Fri 10/03/2006 07:07:02

Don't listen to everybody else here, I mean... jesus! Tell her you love her if that's how you feel! Be enthusiastic if that's how you feel! Take it seriously if that's what you want, do it all as it comes to you and don't worry about where it'll lead. You can't bridge the gap of experience with stupid words people tell you on the internet. You'll have to go through everything, like anyone else, and it's going to be great and awful all at once and it's called living. Just make an effort to be there while everything is going on and not outside the box rationalizing everything and how you're going to talk about it on a message board.

QuoteI recommend you do some dirty things with her quickly (experience points count!) and then break up with her. Not meanly, just... tell her you've decided the age gap is too difficult to handle and you want to save further heartbreak for the both of you later.

I'd punch you for saying this. In the kidneys, and not a joke punch either. You'd double up and I'd push you back so you'd fall on the floor and then I'd kick you sharply, once. twice. in the ribs and I'd then whisper to you while you frantically try to not choke on the torrents of your own blood swelling up in your throat "I'm sorry. I'm trying to save further heartbreak for both of us."

Grapefruitologist · Fri 10/03/2006 07:19:08

I agree with Helm.
I fell in love when I was 12. I was DEFINATELY in love. If I was anymore in love, I'd EXPLODE.
And when we broke up, I couldn't stop thinking about it! I didn't get over it until like 2 years later! In fact, I'm so obsessed with this failed relationship that I'm making my AGS game-and the SEQUEL to it-based on it!

Anyway, either way, if it fails or works out, you're lucky. I'm glad I know what it feels like to have a broken heart now. I've got an ex to make fun of!

Sam. · Fri 10/03/2006 08:07:44

I say marry her, if it goes wrong, just have her killed. It'd be poetic Justice, or something.

Nikolas · Fri 10/03/2006 08:17:04

You'veseen her picture, has she seen yours?

If yes, then go ahead and follow Helms advice!

chapter11studios · Fri 10/03/2006 11:25:16

Stupid question, probably, but what's the emo fad?

Paper Carnival · Fri 10/03/2006 13:02:40

If you don't learn it yourself nobody will teach you. If I told you not to date her you wouldn't listen anyway and if you did, you would never go through some important lessons. So I just say go for it, do prepare for the worst and never get attached too much - I don't mean you should be shallow or anything, but don't plan your whole life around her!

To answer your initial question: No, you are not a lucky bastard

Quotewhat's the emo fad?

1) Take a goth and what you hate about him
2) Take a hardcore-punk and what you hate about him
3) Put them in a blender, mix well
4) Add some gayness - a giant teaspoon is enough
5) Behold and phear teh Emo Kid

http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-2866182783213645581&q=emo

(yes I do realise that not all goths and emos are politically-correct stuff goes here. I don't hate them, I even have friends who more polically correct stuff goes here)

Andail · Fri 10/03/2006 14:12:35

I'm not gonna share my personal experiences, partly because Modgegulator would be annoyed (he'd probably hire a hitman if I said anything remotely similar to what Evil just said), and partly because I don't have much experience from that age.

First of all, the question is poorly phrased. A better question would be "is this girl very physically attractive?" In which case it's still hard to answer because the photo reveals little of her true appearence. Luck has to do with whether she treats you well, stays true to you, fullfills your needs, stimulates you in various ways, etc.

Apart from that, I don't think anybody has the rights to teach you what love is about, even though they might have a good point. To say that you love someone means so very very much, and it takes a lot of experience to truly know what you're actually talking about.
There is however a point somebody brought up that you need to realise, which is that she's adult and you're not, and the relationship you have is very unusual.

Whatever happens, you'll learn something from it.